Why Should You Sell Your Home in Divorce?
When going through a divorce when of the first things that may come to mind is whether or not you should sell the marital home. Divorce and selling a home or other real estate are probably two of the most stressful life events. Going through both at the same time can be ten times worse. Questions of home ownership can become difficult to deal with when you are facing a divorce.
For many couples their home is the greatest asset they have, and it usually holds a fair amount of sentimental value as well. As much as one or the other may want to keep the home, though, many times the situation demands getting rid of it. This can be due to financial, legal or personal reasons, but in the end they must unload the home.
Knowing how divorce affects the sale of a home, including reasons to sell, is important. As emotionally trying as the divorce is, a bad move concerning a home can come back to haunt you for many years – long after the divorce is said and done.
There are usually one of three scenarios that take place for most couples who go through a divorce:
- One of the spouses buys out the others legal interest and keeps the home.
- One spouse keeps use and occupancy of the home for a specified period of time which is typically when the youngest child turns eighteen at which time the home can be sold.
- The house is sold immediately and the equity if there is any is split up in some fashion.
Selling a home and getting divorced is tricky business that should be thought through thoroughly!
Legal Reasons For Selling a Home in Divorce
Some divorces involve two people who can deal peaceably and reasonably with one another. If this is the case in your divorce, you can discuss the best options for your situation and act accordingly. However, in many cases the division of property and specifically the division of the family home is not cut and dry.
Each of you contributed to the purchase of the home – even if one did so more than the other – and each wants his or her fair share. If you cannot come to an agreement out of court, either on your own or through mediation with your attorneys, the courts will decide for you. This is not a pleasant experience for most homeowners, though, as the judge rarely decides exactly as either party would like.
This is why it is always advisable to come to an agreement beforehand if possible. Many times the most simple solution is to sell the home. When the family home is sold the division of assets becomes easier because you are not trying to figure out a future value of the home. You can get current assessments of value from an appraiser or competent local Real Estate agent. Selling a home in divorce is tricky business that should be thought through thoroughly.
Financial Consideration For Selling a Home During Divorce
Divorce and selling a home creates some important financial considerations. Because you were married, there is a very good chance that your mortgage is based off of both of your incomes. Cut that income in half and you understand very quickly why the home you managed to buy required both of you to pay for it. Even if your income is the higher of the two, house payments, insurance, property taxes and upkeep can all eat away at your finances. For most spouses this is too much to handle.
One of the very important financial aspects that should be considered is the capital gains tax ramifications. The current capital tax gains law says that if you are married and selling a home you can exclude up to $500,000 in profit. If you are single the capital gains exclusions drops in half to $250,000. In order to be eligible for this exclusion you must have lived in your home for two of the last five years. The home must also be your personal residence and can not be an investment property.
This is where it becomes tremendously important for both parties to think this through properly. Essentially what this means is that there is a huge financial incentive to sell the home while you are still legally married. Selling the marital home will allow up to $500,000 in profit to be excluded from federal capital gains taxes.
Couples can apply for this tax break if they file a joint tax return or if they file separately. When filing separately, each partner can still claim up to $250,000 on their tax return, provided that they still meet the two-out-of-five years in the home qualification.
If you have owned your property for a significant amount of time and there has been a large equity growth this can amount to significant tax savings. If one party chooses to remain in the home but plans on selling sometime in the future there could be quite a difference in tax savings. This makes selling a home while getting divorced something that needs to be planned for carefully.
Emotional Reasons For Selling a Home
Divorce and selling a home usually go hand in hand because of the emotional issues stemming from keeping the property. You may have built a happy and fulfilling life in your home, including pets and children and improvements to make it just like you like it. With the departure of your spouse, though, the once happy home can quickly become unpleasant to live in. Memories of better times – or the bad times – can taint the comfort you once experienced in your house. Some people are just not interested in going through these feelings day in and day out.
This is in fact one of the more prominent reasons that one of the parties may decide at some point in the future, that keeping the house was not all that is was cracked up to be. The emotional factor is also something that people don’t think about enough. There are so many things going through your mind when going through a divorce that often times your judgement can become clouded.
Liability Reasons in Divorce
If the first two reasons are not enough, liability is usually enough to seal the deal for divorcing couples. Even if one person wants to keep the house, the other spouse should get very clear on what that will mean. There are multiple ways to keep a house and let one spouse remain in it, but each carries difficulties and risks.
Take over the mortgage – If the spouse who wants the home has enough income, he or she could take over the mortgage and just make the payments. This requires talking to the lender and refinancing the home – meaning the person must qualify – but some are capable of doing this. If you can accomplish this it removes the other spouse from the equation completely – therefore eliminating his or her liability – but not many people have this kind of income.
Of course, you also have to answer the question of how much equity the departing spouse has in the home and either buy them out or set up a payment plan. Unless you are divorcing on the best of terms, this probably means consulting a divorce attorney.
Co-own the home – If you have children and you want to keep them in the same house, you could both stay on the mortgage to create as little disruption as possible. The remaining spouse can make full payments or you can both agree to a percentage. This requires a great amount of trust though, because should the remaining spouse fall behind or fail to make the payments, the departing spouse will suffer the same credit issues and mortgage problems.
Win at all costs – One of the unfortunate things I have experienced in some divorce scenarios is one parties desire to “win” at all costs. There have been occasions where one spouse insists on keeping the home even though it is not a prudent financial decision because they see it as winning a large battle. In other words their judgement becomes clouded from going through such a traumatic event which they may not have wanted.
When one party ends up keeping the marital home for this reason there are times when later on down the road they later realize that maybe taking on such a large debt and all the expenses that come along with home ownership was not such a good idea.If you decide to keep the marital home you REALLY need to make sure you can afford the mortgage payments and all the other expenses that come along with home ownership that you may not be considering.
Lots of couples getting a divorce underestimate what it’s going to cost them to live once the divorce is finalized. One of the things you should be doing when contemplating to keep the home is to develop a comprehensive budget before you lock yourself into a divorce settlement. Don’ think about keeping the home in a divorce as a “win” if it is going to bury you financially somewhere down the road.
How To Sell Your Home During Divorce
Selling a home during a divorce is much like selling real estate any other time, except that you MUST lay the groundwork beforehand that determines who gets what. With a real estate agent helping you selling the home for a fair market value should be possible – as long as you follow your agent’s advice. Before this happens though you should have decided on how the money from the sale will be divided up.
This decision making process is best achieved through your attorneys. Let them guide you through the process of deciding equity. This will involve a thorough examination of the history of your marriage related to the property and consulting one or more real estate appraisers. You need a good idea of what your home is worth as well as the value of any improvements you made to the house.
Once this is decided, bring in a reputable real estate agent – one hired based on interviews, credentials and sale history – and get your house on the market. Follow his or her advice to a T, and be willing to compromise a little. Selling for a little less than what you might want can get the home off your hands faster and help you both move on with your lives.
The Divorce Realtor You Select Is Important
When going through a divorce and selling real estate you are going to want to work with a Realtor that has exceptional communication skills.
Given that there could be two parties that might not be getting along that well anymore, you are going to want to work with someone who understands the nature of divorce and all the emotional baggage that comes with this stressful life event. The Realtor you choose to work with is going to have a certain level of patience, as all communications could be repeated multiple times.
The Realtor you decide to work with is a process that should be worked on together. As an agent who has worked with numerous divorcing couples over my twenty seven years in the business, I have found that if one party selects the Realtor the other feels slighted. Human nature kicks in and the natural instinct is to feel that the Realtor is going to play favorites because of an established relationship with one party.
When I am hired to represent a divorcing couple I want them both to be present for any listing interviews that take place. I want them to understand that I represent both of them equally. There is no favoritism involved. My number one priority is to sell the home for the most money possible in a reasonable amount of time with the least amount of headaches.
Creating an atmosphere of trust where either party can call me at anytime is very important. Getting a divorce is stressful enough as it is. Adding a home sale on top of it can make you feel like your life is totally upside down. Striving to make the home sale process go as smoothly as possible is always one of my goals.
While going through a divorce brings with a different set of challenges, the real estate agent you should work with should not only have some experience with divorce but also a strong track record of success. When selling a home and getting divorced selecting a Realtor is an incredibly important decision yet so many sellers do not take the time necessary to really make a sound business decision. Being in the business as long as I have it still puzzles me how lackadaisical some people can be with choosing a Realtor.
You would think that selling ones largest asset would bring a determination to choose one of the best agents around. Often times this is not the case and no research is done in order to make the best possible selection. Divorce and selling a home at the same time is tricky business. Make sure you are well prepared for this endeavor.
More Divorce and Home Selling Resources:
- What are the options of selling a home during divorce via SF Gate.
- What to do when selling a house and getting divorced by About.com
- How should proceeds be divided when selling a home and going through a divorce by DivorceNet.com
- What are the tax implications of divorce by Turbo Tax.
Use these additional resources to help you consider whether to sell a home during a divorce. Divorce and selling real estate is something that should be discussed with an attorney, as well as a competent financial adviser.
About the author: The above Real Estate information on divorce and selling real estate was provided by Bill Gassett, a Nationally recognized leader in his field. Bill can be reached via email at firstname.lastname@example.org or by phone at 508-625-0191. Bill has helped people move in and out of many Metrowest towns for the last 27+ Years.
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